It's been almost a year since 
I started Playgrounds & Lollipops, and if I've discovered anything about myself, it's that I'm not a very good style blogger.  I should essentially have close to 50 posts in the archives but instead I have less than 25.  Yes, you could blame it on the fact that I am a mom of 2 young children, I work full time (although that wasn't always the case), and for the most part, my husband is the only one that can take my pictures.  When he gets an emergency call from a client, I feel a little silly asking him to stop and take my picture before he goes and rescues a computer from its untimely demise.  Priorities right?       
{Top - local boutique Tullemoss (hand-wash only grrr! Be careful to read tags before you leave the store); Jeans - Gap; Shoes - Simply Vera by Vera Wang for Kohl's' Earrings - The Rusted Chain} 
You could blame it on a lack of inspiring scenery.  Here's me standing 
 in front of my house, or here's me
 in my house.  No graffiti walled  backgrounds, no beautiful meadows.  Just me and the chain link fence  that outlines the school across the street.  Or me and my brick wall.   You get the picture.
 See the stroller striding moms in the picture below?  They gave me the weirdest looks as they walked by. 
 But the truth is most of the time I feel downright silly and ridiculous  standing in front of the camera.  I don't know how to pose, do I look at  the camera, do I not?  Where do I put my hands?  What are my readers  going to think of my outfit?  In fact, who do I even think I am, thinking  anyone wants to see my silly outfit?  In fact I feel silly even  blogging about the superficial world of fashion sometimes.  Let's face  it, there's a lot more important stuff going on in the world than  talking about clothes, no matter how good they can make a tired momma  feel.  The insecurities I guess never stop, even when you're close to  35.  Funny that I never feel this way when I'm about to 
reveal my soul or
 share a recipe.  
When it comes down to it, I guess I'm disappointed in the direction  that P&L has taken in the last year.  I never intended it to simply  be a "look what I wore" type of series, but it quickly became that and  for one reason or another I didn't know how to change directions.  My  hope for P&L was that it could be a series that gave moms a little  inspiration to think of fashion outside of the box.  To try something  new, shop at a store you wouldn't have thought of stepping into, wear a  hat you didn't think you could pull off.  If there's one thing I know my  style isn't, is fussy.  I wear a top, a pair of jeans and shoes.   That's it, nice and simple.  No complicated accessorizing, no  avant-garde pieces that hurt your brain thinking of how you're going to  wear them.  Whose got time for complications right?  So whether you  think you can wear exactly what I'm wearing isn't the point, but rather, can the outfit equation be replicated for your body type?  Absolutely.
Flattering Jeans + Cute Top + Ballet Flats + Simple Earrings  =   You're Set!
I also had hopes of providing all this insightful shopping  advice  along the way because if I am going to admit I can do anything  right,  its shopping.  I have become quite a savvy shopper in all my  years of  experience both personally and professionally.  I've learned to  find my  style, build a wardrobe that I like and I'm proud to say I've  never  put my family in debt in the process. 
Before I go on and get myself into an irreversible depression for the  day, I turn to you my readers and ask, what type of posts would you like  to see going forward as it relates to fashion?  As superficial as I  sometimes feel blogging about fashion, it's what I do, it's what I love,  and it's what I know.  So you're stuck with it being a somewhat regular  topic on here, in addition to my family and food :)  Would you like to  see styling tips, shopping tops, before and afters of other moms?  What  do you despise about your wardrobe, what would you like to change about  it?  Do you hate shopping and prefer to just buy a few pieces online, so  would online tips be helpful?  Want to learn how to quickly navigate  through the mall with 2 small children in tow and still find what you're  looking for?    
I'm just throwing ideas out there, but would love to hear what you have   to say.  So would you help a lady out and be honest (but not brutal)?  Please, if you can take a couple of minutes to comment, even   if you normally don't.  It's a new year and as you can see I'm already   making some big changes in my life.  I want to make some changes here on   the blog as well.  I don't want this blog to just be a journal of ME,   but a space that can be useful and helpful, even when it comes to a  silly little thing like clothes.   
Project 2011 is going great so far.  In the last two weeks my only  purchase has been new foundation at my local beauty supply store with a  GROUPON!  I have to admit that after the gluttony of December, it's been  easy to avoid shopping.  Come March & April, it's going to be a  different story.  The One Warm Coat Drive is a huge success and we still  have a week to go.  We've gathered at least 100 coats, sweaters and  sweatshirts.  God is good!  Have a great weekend everyone.  It's  supposed to be close to 80 degrees here so the sunny forecast has got me  in the mood for soft nail polish colors, wispy tops, and eating on  patios.